Most brides and grooms will have a few small reservations before the wedding, and that is natural. When pre-wedding jitters are centered on suspicions of infidelity, however, it's time to pull out all the stops. No one should ever march down the aisle if there is any suspicion of unfaithfulness, or worse. Modern dating rituals are n othing like the past when couples were introduced primarily by nurturing friends and family members. Today a romantic introduction is more likely to take place on the Internet or in a crowded restaurant. The fast-paced world of clubbing, social media and telecommunications has convinced some of us that love should be blind. The problem is it causes many couples to rush into marriage at a hurried pace without a proper background check. The average bride does not have the resources to conduct a background check on her own. She could search the name of her husband-to-be on the Internet, and she may be able to uncover some past debt or criminal behavior, but can she find out if he has a history of infidelity? Will it tell her if he is likely to cheat or if he is cheating now? If a bride-to-be is deeply concerned that her lover has been unfaithful, she could ask her friends to keep an eye on her fiancé, but this is a scattershot approach. It relies on the attentiveness of her friends and the accuracy of their observations. Another problem is that her husband-to-be and his buddies will likely recognize the bride's acquaintances, and would suppress any unfaithful behaviors they might normally engage in. If there have been suspicious behaviors, such as hiding the cell phone bill or keeping late hours with no good excuse, you might consider hiring a private investigator before your wedding. A PI is capable of targeting an unfaithful lover and maintaining a steady watch 24 hours a day. They know how to keep a low profile in cases where confidentiality is a must. They have the equipment and manpower to conduct a proper pre-marital investigation and uncover the factual truth about a two-timing lover. Learning the truth about a suspicious lover can be painful, but not always. In many cases, a private investigator can verify the faithfulness of a fiancé before the wedding. Whether the news is good or bad, you should always find out the truth about the person you intend to marry. Having that kind of knowledge is priceless.